What do you like most about having sex?

This is a question you can ask your partner to help open up a conversation about sex. If they tell you what turns them on, you could tell them what you like too and if there is anything you would like to try or change. 

This can feel embarrassing, but talking about sex with your partner is normal, and it is the sign of a healthy relationship. Having these conversations can bring you and your partner closer, and it can take your sex life to the next level.  

It is also important to find the right time and place to raise the topic. Pick a moment when you are both feeling happy and relaxed, and neither of you is under any pressure. Avoid bringing up the subject just before or after sex or before, during or after an argument. You could go for a walk or a drive, or go somewhere private where you both feel comfortable. Can you think of a time and place when you and your partner are likely to be in the right headspace to discuss sex?